Ways to understand someone.

People nowadays. They just tend to be very different and hard to understand. I bet most of em are curious like how others think and what's on their mind sometimes. I guess what I can say is to be honest to that person, talking to them heart to heart.

However, some would be like " I tried being honest with them but why can't I understand them?" Sometimes, to understand doesn't mean you can just understand by just being honest. The keys to it is by spending time as well. The more time you spent with that particular person would give you alot of chance to know how they think about stuffs and all.

IF you still could NOT understand that person. Then I guess you have to use the "ultimate weapon". There's also this way. The way that I've been going through and doing since I was 14 LOL! It is by going through what they go through. I mean of course not to the extend of risking your life but I guess the more you risk your life to do something AS CLOSE AS POSSIBLE to experience something very similar. Cause to understand somebody, what could be a better way than to understand them other than being in their shoes LITERALLY.

I mean you could also read about what others think and so on and also play games that makes you understand people more. I mean I've been playing quite a few that does teach me how to understand people. Examples of these games are like Katawa Shoujo I guess.

However, these games always have a disadvantage. I mean it screws up one's mind. Like sometimes it makes you emo as well and makes you think so much that why things happen this way. Well, I would really say it's dangerous because it's either you work it out and be awesome to understand why things are like that or you'll just be like things are like that. It's always like shit. That's life to you and your life might be turned from positive to negative =\

So yea, before trying anything, do make sure you're actually prepared mentally for these stuffs. It ain't easy trying to understand people. Not easy at all =\